Getting Lost at one Familiar Place , Tagaytay.

Well if you’re from Cavite like us,experiencing the cool breeze from Tagaytay is just like a 30-45min drive away ( depending on the traffic ). We usually  go here for late night booze,coffee or bulalo, since it is quite near we don’t actually opt of staying here over night simply because we can just drive home. duuuh .

But this time me and the Big Bear ( boyfie ) decided to rent a condo at tagaytay to make the most of our stay here.

we found a place through AirBnb ( https://www.airbnb.com/ )we booked a studio type condo since its cheaper than booking a hotel room within the area. There’s a variety of  condo’s to choose from but since we’re following a strict budget for our Batangas trip    (will blog about that after this)  we settled on a place within that tight budget, a beautiful unit inside Cityland Tagaytay Prime Recidences.

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look at him enjoying the bed right after we arrived -_- . I personally loved the back.drop within the bedroom, the room was sooo well designed and mind me if i took a hell lot of selfies given this chic wooden background.

• THE ROOM :

The room we’ve got was a studio type condo unit complete with kitchenware, 40″  t.v, separate toilet and shower room with heater, AC , cable and (thank goodness ) WIFI , there’s a complimentary coffee, tea and bottled water free upon our arrival, shampoo and soap are all provided as well, drinks on the fridge (e. bottle of wine, 2 cans of beer, soda, chocolate drink ) are available to consume but with corresponding fee payable upon check out ( how much? that I don’t know since we bought our own ( this couple LOOOOVES the grocery store! ) The boyfie enjoyed the mini living room since he fits perfectly at the sofa bed watching his daddy channels ( e. national geographic, discovery channel and home shopping ) and I enjoyed taking selfies on the bed room ( wait did I mentioned the bed’s amazing back.drop? I did.. sorry! ) The room was very homey! everything was almost provided considering its not over priced, it is indeed a complete value for money!

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• THE VIEW:

The unit was located at the 17th floor of the bldg. , though there isn’t any lake view , the city view and lights at night fed our eyes, it was quite a beauty ! The balcony was bit small me and the Big Bear who both loves food could barely fit but t’was okay when we decided to sit on the balcony floor.( iwas lula bes! we’re both scared of heights! )

• THE FOOD: 

Well one thing about us that hasn’t change through our 5 year relationship is of course our love for FOOD!

There’s plenty of restau’s to choose from within  the vicinity of Tagaytay , since the place’s quite accessible to us we’ve tried the most of them on some occasions , our favorite Balinsasayaw ( try their Balinsasayaw rice , mapapasayaw ka bes promise! ), Giligans ( that you can find almost everywhere ) , Bag of beans , Diners, RSM , and gosh we could go on forever if i name them all, anyhoo as I’ve mentioned we’re following a limited budget so we chose quantity with quality in the cheapest possible way.

LUNCH:

Me and the Bear decided to get our groceries at Serin to buy our necessities (e. toothbrush, snacks, booze etc. ) but pardon me I’m such a lazy potato that day so I refused to cook , I convinced him with my puppy eyes for us to eat our lunch there as well , so the hunt for the perfect restau’s that fit our budget begins. Our first choice was Pepper Lunch since it is one of our faves, but we want to try something new, on our quest we found a humble place at the upper ground floor , The Chinese kitchen , I’m craving for rice and chicken so we checked their menu and babe it is within our budget so we barged in took our seat and placed our order .

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Me not just the Bear loves ordering food that’s good for 3-4/pax and man we can finish it under 15min! That’s our not so hidden talent ( haha! ) , we ordered their yang chow fried rice, hainanese chicken , pork asado , fresh lumpia & cuapao (which we didn’t like, sorry), food was okay , it satisfied my kanin caraving,  but i have to be honest twas’ just so-so except for the fresh lumpia that I could eat everyday ( you have to try it I swear! ).

DINNER :

Again we’re too lazy to cook so we decided to drive around and search a place to eat dinner. I would love to eat at Balinsasayaw since that’s my favorite but the baby wants something not heavy daw. We ended up at Bulalo point ( not heavy huh ), man it was really cold that night so Bulalo was indeed the perfect choice, we got their classic Bulalo , we’re kinda fooling ourselves so we did not get a platter of rice , we got solos since we’re health conscious ( my ass ) but we ended up ordering another set of extra rice which was almost the same quantity as  the platter but with less guilt.  Perfect Dinner for me!

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BREAKFAST: 

Our 2nd day was spent at Calatagan Batangas and we just ordered take outs so let’s jump at our last day at the city after our check out , We had coffee at ( as usual ) Starbucks ordered brewed since its cold and we’re still sleepy asf. The weather , coffee and my favorite human made me love breakfast time 10x more!

We’re about to head home after coffee but when we checked the time , hunny its lunch time , and we cannot miss a meal ( that’s so not happening in this lifetime ) so we decided to drop by at Serin and grab our lunch.

LUNCH:

Our finances are running low but our appetite isn’t , we want to have lunch at Loumars but again our finances were running low so we decided to try the one next to it J. Rosales’s Kuya J , and baby there isn’t an ounce of regret after we’ve finished our food! We ordered Crab meat fried rice, roasted chicken and chopsuey . My tummy has never been that happy at Lunch time!

• THE WEATHER: 

During the day the weather was quite okay , sunny a bit hot yes but not your usual summer weather, you could still feel the cold breeze , but at night? Man It.Was.Cold. me and the bear loves staying at the balcony at night drinking wine while admiring the city lights so we can’t help but feel the cold wind brushing on our skin from the 17th floor , man the wind’s even colder that the room’s AC , its warmer inside the unit than outside. So if you’re planning of staying overnight like we did  make sure to bring your jammies. 🙂

We’ve stayed here for 3 days and 2 nights ( March 15-17 ) The unit was really again a value for money, you can check their availability through the AirBnb website, Ms. Jamie the host and her caretaker Ms. Dang are both accommodating, Hands up to their hospitality.

We’ll definitely come back soon!

link: https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/17032051

An Open Letter to the one who broke my heart.

Hi, it has been months since the nerve-wrecking revelation came out,I tried to break free but it seems like there’s no way out.  I’ve been having nightmares ever since  I knew your mishaps , or is it even worthy to be called a mishap? I couldn’t consider breaking me as an unlucky accident , it is more like an unfortunate choice, I have been nothing but good to you but come to think of it… Have I really been good for you? For me hurting someone so badly means he or she deserves it , so maybe at some point I really did deserved it.

I forgave you a day after I knew you’re into someone new. You cried and told me she’s not worth the big news, I convinced myself that it is just one big mistake and that the pain would slowly fade away , we tried to move on and  live like we used to be, I laughed and smiled as if someone erased my memory , but then again when I am alone , I tend to cry almost too often on my own , if I were to inanimate how I lived after that I would draw monsters and demons all around , Depression and anxiety ate me up and I came to the point I don’t even want to wake up .

Tell me how could a woman forget that she is not enough , even after she gave you every thing she’s got, Tell me how could a woman cast all of her emotions out just to welcome you back with open arms? Tell me How could a woman bring her life back after she died after you big fat lie? How could she look at you the same after she read your exchange of I love you’s and good nights? How could she kiss you as she did before after seeing the lewd things you’ve done with another girl?

Honey I loved you and I still do but I am loving you now with all the shattered pieces that you’ve left me with , I don’t want to let you go ,call me crazy, selfish and mad but I won’t leave you alone. It is a god-damn choice for me to battle with my demons on my own. I know you’re trying and that’s okay it is more than enough for me to stay , don’t get me wrong and think that what you’re doing isn’t enough, it is . And I can see behind those glasses there is your eyes, they projected the guilt you’ve kept inside. If only I could wipe them all away and tell you everything’s gonna be okay.

I thought I forgave you when I hugged you back, but now I am facing the aftershock .

Months may be enough to ease the intensity of the pain , but it is not enough to cast the memories away.

Stay and love me that I wish, Be brave and hug me please give me a kiss.

Stay and love the broken woman I have become.

And I’ll stay and love the broken man that you are.

#hello2017

Hi. How do I start this.

Well I’ve always wanted to put up my own blog, you know, write about things that are usually flooding my mind, topics that I love to talk about, issues that I think I know what the solution is, but the problem is I almost too often chicken out, I get lazy asf and yes after a few tries I tend to forget it . But hey what other season’s for a mediocre person choose than new year’s day?  This is the time that most common people often think that they could start up something new . Something that might define them. Something that might bring a change. Well I honestly think I might get bored with this in the long run but I’d take my chances .

2017 … What difference could this year bring to me.

1.  live more and sleep less.

One thing about me is that I choose not to do things just because of my anxiety that I may not get enough sleep if pursue what I want to do within the day. But then today it hit me. I’m 23 not 7 , I don’t need a solid 9hr. Sleep , 6-7hrs. really more than enough.

Note to self : hunny you need to live within what’s real no matter how much you love playing in your dreams.

2.  Stop being a lazy potato and be fabulous!

Well things tend to be different now that I am a struggling millennial than I was when I was a happy go lucky “kolehiyala”.

Now I prefer comfortable than classy, I don’t do my hair,  don’t pick the right clothes and such the way I did when I was younger , everything seems fast paced now I felt the need to keep up but I  forgot that I also need to take care of myself as well. Guess I’ll make this year my beauty year .

Fingers crossed that I won’t get tired of it half way along the way.

3.  Let go . Let love.

2016 , left a big ugly scar in my heart. People who knows me could tell you why. I struggled for months and is still struggling now  I won’t go on detail why because my pain caused much havoc not just to me but for the people around me as well .

I will leave all the demons back where they belong and I’ll start fresh this year. Its easy to forgive but its hard to forget that’s the brutal fact , but now I’ll do what is less convenient for me to do. This year I will do both. I will forgive and yes I will forget. I shall cast these anxieties away and as cliche as it sounds I will be a better stronger version of my self.

Guess this is a wrap for my first blog.

Yes, hello 2017.